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How to Really Clean A Car Seat

December 21, 2015 by amushro

Last night we took the kids to see Christmas lights and they loved every second of it! I packed lots of snacks and lots of hot chocolate because it’s impossible to view Christmas lights without munching on sweets and drinking lots of coco. However, a few minutes into the trip, I heard the familiar and dreaded “Uh-oh!” from my tiny passengers. And I knew it. There was delicious hot chocolate all over their car seats. Sigh.

Car seats keep our precious cargo safe every day; however, those travelers tend to get those car seats really, really, really dirty. If you’re like me, you think to wash the seat when you are in the car, but totally forget once you get out of the car. It usually takes a really big mess for us to take on the daunting task of cleaning the kids car seats, but fear not, I’ve got a step-by-step approach to taking the seat apart, cleaning, and reassembling. Click right here to be magically transported.

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Filed Under: Family

Our Holiday Irreconcilable Differences

December 11, 2015 by amushro

Before kids, my husband would completely indulge my Christmas decorating extravagance. While I understand there is a fine line between festive and “someone put this lady on Honey Boo Boo,” I struggle with which side of that line I fall on each year. When we were dating, Aaron thought my need to use All. The. Decorations. was cute and charming. In those early days, he was willing to dangle from the roof to hang twinkle lights for me. He’d buy those extra yards of tinsel because I batted my eyes and said I loved it so. He’d laugh and find somewhere else to store yet another set of Christmas dishes. And that sweet man even let me put up a hot pink tree in his house. Now that, my friends, is love. When my son and daughter arrived on the scene, my obsession for all things twinkly and bright on Christmas hit an all-time high.

The tree needed to be bigger!

More lights on the house!

More presents for everyone!

More tinsel!

We need more tinsel!

But with kids comes crap. All kinds of crap. Crap in the literal sense, and crap in the way of your house slowly morphing into Toys R’ U. With this newly acquired crap, my husband’s patience began to wear thin with my love of all things Christmas and my excessive need to show holiday joy through lights, glitter, and tinsel. Ebenezer Scrooge, anyone?

Since marriage is all about compromise (sham), we have instated a new tradition, the “Christmas Bargaining.” Like all good laws, it comes out of necessity and long fought battles.

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While searching online for holiday decor I may have missed last season, I read that a local tree farm had a special event where families could choose their  Christmas tree from acres of Douglas and Frasier firs, and once your O’ Tannenbaum has been chosen and cut down, a team of Husky dogs will happily pull the tree to your car. Imagine the holiday cheer! Surely the dogs will be wearing wreaths of holly around their necks and bells on their little leather harnesses. Mush, doggies! Let’s get that tree on our swagger wagon. Mamma has some tinsel waiting at home for this one!

However, there was one teesey, tiny detail I left out. We (and by we I mean my husband) would need to cut down our tree. Surely he wouldn’t mind this manly act. It was all for the sake of Christmas. Think of the kids! Think of me! Think of the tinsel! Let’s get to it, chop, chop!

Driving out to the tree farm, the kids and I loudly sang a few rousing renditions of “Jingle Bells” as my always doting husband tolerated his tone deaf carolers.  That’s about when his Christmas joy ran thin.

When we unloaded the kids and headed into the rows of trees, we passed a heap of hot, panting fur. It seems the unseasonably warm weather was a bit much for the Husky dogs and they needed a break.  A break for the rest of the day.

Through my best adorable pout I broke the news to him, “Bummer.  I’m so sad the dogs can’t pull our tree to the car. Oh, by the way, we (and by we, I mean you) have to cut down the tree, drag it several hundred yards back to our car, and attach it to our roof.”

Hilarity did not ensue, and some may say he even turned a shade that resembled the Grinch.  He looked at me and grumbled “No. Just no.”

But I had two babies in Christmas sweaters, a video camera, my best Christmas face on, and I was wearing reindeer ears. I mean, who could ever say no to that sweet image?

The teenager working the cash register handed him an ax and a few yards of twine. My man was trapped and the only thing left to do was cut down a dam Christmas tree.

You know, I always imagined tree cutting as a quick process. Turns out, it’s not. It involves a lot of cursing, sap, dirty looks, and near severing of digits. During a few of his breaks from the chopping, I offered some quality time under the mistletoe to make up for his hard work.  That offer may have been enticing at first, but even after we all yelled “timber,” his work was not done.

While December in Maryland tends to be quite chilly, that day felt more like spring. And this warmth was ever apparent from the sweat pouring off Aaron’s forehead and he dragged the tree past the other families. “Happy holidays!” I chirped to the other wives we passed, while my husband just mumbled some inaudible groans in solidarity to the other fellows chopping and dragging.

After our escapades in the Christmas tree farm I was banned from ever suggesting such ridiculous ideas when all I was willing to do was sit in the car and feed Goldfish crackers to the kids.

So this year I agreed to get the tree from the place that all you do is point and pay and they do the rest, and my husband agreed to a giant inflatable Santa for our front yard. Compromise

Peace has been restored in the universe and the Christmas season. Now if only I could get him to agree to an inflatable Rudolph.

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Filed Under: Laughs Tagged With: Amanda Mushro, Christmas with kids, cutting down your own tree, holiday decorating

Winter Skin Hacks for Your Kids

December 10, 2015 by amushro

Baby, it’s cold outside and you can tell it on my babies’ dry, itchy skin. Sure the winter months are a blast when you have a ton of snow, school is cancelled, and you get to spend the day sledding, building snowmen, and drinking hot coco. However, it’s the cold air and dry heat in the house that wrecks my kids’ sensitive skin in the winter. Here are some of my mom hacks that help soothe and protect their precious skin in the wintertime.

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Dry, itchy scalps are no match for a mixture of a tablespoon of sugar and a half a tablespoon of coconut oil. Massage the mixture into their scalp for a minute or two (be careful that the oil doesn’t get into their eyes) and let it sit on their scalp for a few minutes. An inexpensive shower cap is a great way to keep the mixture on their scalp, plus their body heat will help melt the oil and let it seep into their dry scalps. After a few minutes, rinse and shampoo when done.

Stay away from scented lotions and cleansers that can irritate their sensitive skin in the winter. Instead use products that are free from harsh scents, dyes, or chemicals and are listed as hypoallergenic. Before bed, lotion up your kids with a thick moisturizer. Don’t forget their cute faces and lips!

Bathing every night can really dry out your child’s skin in the winter. Try to space out bathing to every 2-3 days and just wash them off with a wet washcloth on the days they aren’t headed into the tub.

Since hot water can strip away moisture in sensitive skin, limit your child’s time in the tub to under 10-15 minutes and be sure the water isn’t hot. Before they dry off with a towel, apply a thick moisturizing lotion to their wet skin. This helps the lotion seep into their skin rather than the lotion just sitting on top of their skin.

If their skin is particularly itchy, try adding two cups of white vinegar to their bathwater. The vinegar helps to naturalize the redness and itchy skin. Use a gentle cleanser on their skin before they get out of the tub.

For really dry and cracked skin, petroleum jelly over lotion can help lock in moisture and give some relief during the winter months.

Before your kids head out the door, be sure to dress them in breathable materials like cotton. Wool can irritate skin and cause them to itch and sweat.

Even though it’s winter, don’t forget the sunscreen for everyone’s face. The sun’s harsh rays can still damage that precious skin even in the dead of winter.

For more information on how to soothe and protect your families skin in winter months, check out this site from KnowYourOTCs. Here are a few more of their great tips:

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So bundle up and get outside with your kids. Enjoy those winter months, and if snow isn’t your thing, there’s always hot coco and that really fixes everything!

This post is sponsored by the CHPA educational foundation,KnowYourOTCs.org but all opinions are my own.

Filed Under: Family

What Every Soccer Mom Needs in Her Car

December 2, 2015 by amushro

The other night, my husband and I went to dinner at a fancy restaurant (like a real restaurant–for grown-ups only). When we pulled up to the restaurant, the valet attendant came up to our car and I panicked because, Hello, I’m a mother that carts her kids here, there, and anywhere, and basically, my car is a mess!

I need to be prepared for everything (and I have a little of everything in my car). And you really have to be prepared when your kids are playing a sport, like soccer. So if you are spending lots of time at the soccer field at games, practices and tournaments, you need my What Every Soccer Mom Needs in Her Car list. I’m sure there are a few things on this list you haven’t thought about but you know you need!  Click here to be magically transported to this article!

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How to Make A Kid DIY Emergency Car Kit

December 1, 2015 by amushro

A basic rule of being a mom is that you are prepared for anything.

Kid hungry? No worries, you have a million snacks on hand at any given time.

Baby not feeling well? You’ve got this covered with mom hacks to make your little ones feel better ASAP.

Out at the mall and your kid finds a way to totally destroy their clothes?  Well, lucky you, you’re in a mall. Just go buy them something!

So when you are driving around with precious cargo all day, you need an emergency kit in your car as well. They are easy to put together and if you ever need it, you’ll be so glad you took the time.I’ve got a great list of must haves for every mom that drives their kids here, there and everywhere!  Click here to be transported to my How to make A DIY Car Emergency Kid

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Filed Under: Family Tagged With: DIY, diy car emergency kit, mom hacks

Helping Your Dog With Motion Sickness

November 30, 2015 by amushro

When we travel, we travel with this old lady. Suggie has always been a great traveler, but sometimes she gets motion sickness just like a human. If you’ve ever suffered from motion sickness, you know it’s no fun and can make your trip miserable. So here are a few tips on helping prevent and treat motion sickness in your four-legged friend. Click right here to be magically transported to this post

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Teaching Our Kids Kindness During the Holidays

November 24, 2015 by amushro

Here’s what I say every single day when my kids are heading off to school and I’m wrestling them for one more kiss and hug, silently praying I’ve signed all the forms, and hoping their underwear is on the right way, “Have a good day… I love you…Make good choices… Be Kind!” As parents, we can talk about kindness at home and model it for our kids, but we aren’t always there to whisper in that creepy, loud mom whisper “be kind.” With the craziness of the holidays around the corner, there are so many opportunities to teach our kids to be kind. So here’s two activities that are perfect for the entire family to be kinder and share kindness.

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Catching and Spreading Kindness– This idea helps motivate your entire family to be kind, catch others being kind, and spread kindness. Grab an empty jar and the spare change that’s weighing your purse down or hanging out in your car. Explain to your family everyone will be “catching” each other being kind and every time a family member is caught being kind, a coin goes into the jar. Be sure to give them age appropriate examples:

  • Saying thank you without being reminded
  • Sharing toys
  • Helping clear the dinner table
  • Helping younger siblings get ready
  • Picking up litter in the street
  • Helping out around the house when it’s not part of your regular chores
  • Being kind to a friend or family member when they need a friend
  • Mommy having patience when she has zero patience
  • Daddy completing a task the first time Mommy asks him (see what I did there)

You may find at first it’s the parents catching the kindness, but it won’t take long for your kids to catch some kindness. This easy activity makes everyone more aware of the good things we do every single day (as opposed to just focusing on the negative). So now there’s a lot more “I love that you just picked up everyone’s shoes and put them in the closet!” or “It was so kind of you to help the neighbor by raking their leaves.”Big and small actions, doesn’t matter—catch them being kind and add a coin to the jar!

Now it’s time to spread the kindness! After a designated amount of time has passed (maybe the weeks before Christmas), as a family, decide where the money will go. Maybe it’s buying food and warm beds for the animals at a local pet shelter or purchasing warm coats for needy kids. The idea is to catch kindness, have the jar as a constant reminder, and spread kindness by doing something kind for others with the money collected.

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Grateful Gifts- You know that moment when your kids are faced with a pile of presents that were carefully selected by loved ones, beautifully wrapped, and probably cost a small fortune? You know how it takes mere moments for kids to rip through each and every package and your darling children look up and say what you’re dreading the most, “Are there any more?” Instead of hiding your face in piles of shredded wrapping paper, give your kids a practice run and the right words to say with “Grateful Gifts.”

Have the kids go through the house and select three “gifts” for each other— only items that are already in your house. Here’s the rules:

  • The first gift has to be one the other person will LOVE.
  • The second gift has to be a practical gift.
  • The third gift has to be a super silly gift.

Help the kids wrap the gifts for each other (newspaper works too!). Now everyone unwraps one present at a time while everyone else watches—this is helping them slow down when they are so, so excited.

After they open the gift, they must look at the gift giver, and say “Thank you, ______. I really like this gift because_____.” Then the next person can open a gift.

A few things happen with each gift:

  • When picking out the gift another person loves, (think about their favorite toys,books or games–things we already know they love. My son wrapped up his iPad for his sister to borrow ), you can explain how much time and thought is put into all those gifts loved ones will give them for the holidays. Plus it’s just awesome to make someone you love happy by getting them something they really like. So we’re practicing and thinking about kindness.
  • When they get the practical gift—shoes, shirt, a toothbrush—they still have a kind response because even though a toothbrush isn’t super exciting, we still need those practical gifts and can be kind and grateful to the person that gave it to us. Help them out if they are stuck on what to say “I really like this toothbrush because now I won’t get cavities.”
  • And the silly gift, well that’s just fun and around here, usually it’s a pair of underwear because, come on, underwear are funny.

The holidays are the most magical and wonderful time of year, and being the supermom that you are, you want to make this holiday season spectacular for your kids. So in a few weeks, if you find yourself at the end of your holiday garland and vow to never go through all the trouble to make everyone’s holidays merry and bright again, maybe these activities will remind your family to be a little kinder. Just in time for you to squeeze your kids a little tighter and wish the holidays lasted a little longer.

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You Get a Dose… You Get a Dose… Here’s How to Make Sure Everyone Gets a Safe Dose

November 19, 2015 by amushro

Achooooooo–All it takes is one little sneeze and I know what’s coming next. Achooooooo– the next kid goes down. A day later, Achooooooo-and now it’s me. Finally it’s the most dangerous Achooooooo–of all, my husband with the dreaded “man cold.” And all with that first Achooooooo– no one is sleeping, everyone is miserable, and I look like a zombie straight out of the walking dead. During cold and flu season you need some Mom Hacks to help everyone feel better especially when it comes to giving your kiddos medicine.

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  • Tissues, Tissues everywhere and here’s how to fix it! Cut down on the mess from dirty tissues and keep kids from jumping in and out of bed all night to blow their nose by taking two tissues boxes, one full and one empty, and wrap a rubber band around both boxes. Your child can grab tissue, blow their nose, and drop the tissue in the empty box. I even attach a small bottle of hand sanitizer for super messy nose blowing.

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  • Popsicles make everyone feel better (even in the winter!) soadd Jell-o to homemade popsicles and they won’t melt as fast!  If you add some fruit, you get a something healthy into a sick kiddo with zero appetite.
  • Soothe those coughs and sore throats by grabbing a few spoonfuls of Jell-o, warming it up in the microwave for a few seconds, and adding a tablespoon of honey. The gelatin and honey combo will calm their cough and take away throat pain–great for right before bed. Just remember that honey should only be given to children over the age of one.
  • Hydration is key but if your kids are lying down or napping, you can fully expect spills on their bed and your couch—but not anymore! Grab a cup with a lid and put a crazy straw in upside down. Even if the cup falls over, it won’t spill!
  • We’re already suffering from Mommy-Brain (am I right?) Here’s something that helps: If you’re handing out doses of medicine and need to keep track of the times and doses late at night and during the day, use a dry erase marker on the bathroom mirror to remind you who got what medicine.

Of course any time we give our kids medicine, we have to keep their safety in mind. My friends at KnowYourOTCs have some reminders for parents as we head into cold and flu season.

Especially since a 2014 study in the journal Pediatrics reported that every eight minutes, a child under the age of 6 experiences a medication error outside of the doctor’s office or hospital.

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  • Always read and follow the label.
  • Alway give the recommended dose and use the correct measuring device.
  • Only use the medicine that treats your child’s specific symptoms.
  • Never give two medicines with any of the same active ingredients.
  • Never use cough, cold, or allergy medicines to sedate your child.
  • Never give aspirin-containing products to children and adolescents for cold or flu symptoms unless told to do so by a doctor.
  • Do not use oral cough and cold medicines in children under four.
  • Do not give a medicine only intended for adults to a child.
  • Stop use and contact your doctor immediately if your child develops any side effects or reactions that concern you.
  • Keep all medicines — and vitamins, too — up and away and out of your child’s reach and sight.
  • Teach your child about using medicines safely. Tell your children what medicine is and why you must be the one to give it to them. Never tell children medicine is candy to get them to take it, even if your child does not like to take his or her medicine.

So even if it’s late at night and everyone is sick, take the time to measure out their medicine and yours too. And in the morning, take lots of naps and watch a lot of Netflix… a of Netflix.

 

This post is sponsored by the CHPA educational foundation,KnowYourOTCs.org but all opinions are my own.

Filed Under: Family

DIY Car Upholstery Cleaner

November 18, 2015 by amushro

Did you know that some people have super clean car floors? Those people are called “people that don’t have messy little kids.” For the rest of us, we can expect big messes from little people in our car. While some of those messes are easy enough to clean by vacuuming, for those bigger messes and stains we need to really scrub, there’s car upholstery cleaner and I’ve got a way to make your own upholstery cleaner. It’s fast, simple, and really effective. Now I just need someone to scrub the upholstery of my car *drops hints to husbad* Click right here to be magically transported to my DIY Car Upholstery Cleaner Recipe.

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